Dating A Racist Who “Owns People” In Post-Racial America

Thank you Danielle. Just because those guys date/marry Black and mixed Black women doesn’t mean that they any less racist. Donald Sterling, Strom Thurmond, Thomas Jefferson, Theodore Bilbo, Pat Dewine, Gabriel Aubry, Bill Maher, and Paul Ryan(let’s not leave him out) have said and done racist things while having relationships/raping Black women. That’s racialized sexism, people.

Danielle Belton


A while back when Halle Berry was fighting for custody of her daughter and accusing her ex of being a racist, I wrote a post for Loop21 about what it was like for one black woman to date a racist. I’d link to this story, but Loop21 took a turn for the non-existent, and so did their archives (but you can still take a peak at my old post via the Internet’s Wayback Machine). But I thought of this story as things unfolded with Los Angeles Clippers owner Donald Sterling and his mixed race mistress.

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Deadbeat Dad Series: Kyle Chrisley


In 2012,  Chloe’s mother Angela Johnson gave birth to her.  However, her former boyfriend, Kyle Christley, has been abusive to her and her child.  He’s not supporting his daughter at all.  Instead, he hides behind his alcoholicism and his recent marriage to wife, Lexi.

Kyle Christley is the son of millionaire star Todd Christley.

According to Angela Johnson, he was very abusive to her while pregnant and didn’t want Chloe.  Here’s the excerpt:

There was a time when he got mad at me and came at me with a knife while I was holding Chloe. 

‘He was talking about stabbing me, then threw a bottle of pills and hit me and Chloe right in the face with them.’

Angela also insists Kyle hid his drug use when they were together. 

‘He lies about everything,’ she says, ‘but I could tell he was jacked up because he was always just moving around.’

Johnson tells Life & Style: ‘Kyle is saying he wants Chloe, but he’s really after money.’

But Kyle, who admits he was once diagnosed as bipolar, insists he’s now ‘stable’ and ready to parent Chloe with the help of his wife of six months, Lexi.

‘She’s a mental case,’ said Kyle.

‘I don’t want any money. I want my daughter.’ 

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It’s sad but true.  Swirling is hazardous.

Deadbeat Dad Series: Christopher Carson’s Daughter(Johnny Carson’s Disowned Granddaughter)


Most people know who the late comedian Johnny Carson was.  Very few people knew that his son, Christopher, had a biracial daughter whom he neither sees nor support her in a fatherly way.  In fact, he went out of his way to deny that he ever fathered his biracial daughter, Christal Love.

When Christopher’s girlfriend Tanena Love was pregnant, his father was outraged and urged him to give up her and her unborn child or else be disinherited in disowned.  He chose privilege and racism over supporting his own flesh and blood.

A decade after the death of America’s favorite late night kingpin, Johnny Carson’s granddaughter is still struggling to get by in life.


Johnny left behind a $450 million estate when he died Jan. 23, 2005, from emphysema – but none of it landed in the hands of Christal, now 28. “We never disputed the situation,” Christal’s mom, Tanena Love, 63, exclusively told The National ENQUIRER.
Her lawyer claimed in a child support dispute that Christal was the product of a secret 10-year relationship Tanena had with Johnny’s son Christopher, who lived of his dad’s monthly stipend in Fort Lauderdale, Fla., while trying to become a pro golfer.
Johnny got wind of the interracial romance when Tanena was 6 months pregnant.
Livid, he ordered his son to end it or lose his cash flow. Christopher promptly abandoned his lover and their unborn child.
A Florida judge later ordered him to pay child support. While Grandpa Johnny lived the high life, at one point, Christal had to live off welfare and Medicaid.
Christal spent many heart wrenching years trying to connect with Johnny, who rejected all her holiday cards. Sadly, when Christal was 16, Tanena took her to see her dad at his home in 2003. Christopher ordered them off his property and told them to “never come back,” claimed Tanena.

Let’s not forget the treatment the late night show “king” Johnny Carson and his deep hatred for his son’s then-girlfriend and granddaughter. He did everything in his power to break up the relationship which his coward son did. When the girl, who’s now 21, was born, Massa Carson and his coward son did their darndest to keep the tapes of his granddaughter out of the media and refused to answer the letters or cards his granddaughter sent her.

That brings me to the 1987 Sun-Sentinel news article regarding Christal Love Carson’s’ “father’s” lack of fatherly support, leaving his only child in abject poverty while he lived the high life, supported by his very wealthy father.  He never held a job in his life.  That’s how entitled and spoiled Christopher Carson was and still is to this day.

Johnny Carson`s Grandchild On Welfare

Dad Is In Court

March 25, 1987|By MARCI RICHARDSON, Staff Writer

The grandchild of talk show host Johnny Carson is being raised on welfare in a Fort Lauderdale trailer, while Carson`s son is fighting a request for child support.

Christopher Allen Carson, 36, was ordered by a Broward Circuit judge on Tuesday to pay $125 a week in temporary child support for the daughter born out-of-wedlock eight months ago.

Carson`s attorney had offered $50 a week, saying the sum would be more than adequate for a childless than a year old.

“I think it`s a disgusting offer. It`s insulting,“ said Jeffrey Miller, the Fort Lauderdale attorney representing the infant`s mother. “The child is living in a hovel. I mean she is living in abject poverty. I have photos of this child with rodent bites.“

Miller asked for $300 a week. He said Carson has not been gainfully employed in seven years, although he is a member of the Professional Golfers Association and had previously worked as a pro at the Plantation Golf Club.

Despite his lack of regular income, Carson testified that he owns free-and- clear two cars and a $119,000 house in a waterfront Fort Lauderdale neighborhood. In addition, Carson said he has a bank account with a balance of $35,000.

All of his assets, Carson said, were gifts from his father.

Drue Wilson, personal assistant to the popular television star, said she knew nothing about the situation or pending legal squabbles.

“My comment is no comment,“ Wilson said from NBC headquarters in Burbank, Calif.

But Miller contended it was Johnny Carson`s influence that prompted his son to break a nine-year relationship with Tanena Love Green and abandon her in the midst of her pregnancy.

He said the couple had planned to have the child, but Christopher Carson withdrew his financial and moral support about four months after Christal Love Carson was conceived when his father learned the child`s mother was black.

Green, 35, filed a paternity suit a short time later.

“I think if I had blonde hair maybe and blue eyes, his family would accept me and their only grandchild,“ said the now-unemployed model and entertainer.

Christopher Carson`s Miami attorney, Herbert Stettin, countered that Green is simply trying to milk his client to support her and two teen-age children from two prior marriages.

The $125 support figure reached on Tuesday is only temporary, cautioned Broward Circuit Judge Robert C. Abel Jr. He said Christopher Carson is obliged by law to provide for his child.

The ultimate amount, however, will be decided in July at a final hearing. And that, the judge said, “is a distinct and different ballgame.“

Deadbeat Father Series: Ari Nagel


Shaking my head!  This has to be the worst.  This reminds me of slavery when Black women were forced to breed children, Black and Biracial in the 1800s.  Today, it’s voluntary and there’s plenty of self-hating Black women out there seeking this pathetic, creepy man by the name of Ari Nagel.


This man gets the so-called “father of the year” by the right-wing biased New York Post.  Had he been a Black man, the media and the law would had pilloried him.  Several years ago, several Black men in Tennessee were shamed and jailed for doing the very thing the so-called professor is doing.  It screams double standards.  Why is it that when non-Black men impregnate several women, they’re called fertility doctors and sperm donors but when Black men do those things, they’re called deadbeat dads and irresponsible?  Racism and hypocrisy.

Here’s an excerpt from the NYPost:

A year after The Post revealed that CUNY math professor Ari Nagel had fathered 23 kids — some conceived the old-fashioned way, others involving sperm handoffs at public spots such as the Atlantic Center Target in downtown Brooklyn — he’s back. Nagel, 41, has donated his supersperm to even more women, resulting in four kids born since last Father’s Day. And eight other ladies, from Florida to Maryland to the Bronx, are currently pregnant because of him.

In fact, wannabe mommies from all over the globe have reached out to Nagel after seeing his story in The Post: He’s had inquiries from Turkey, Nigeria, South Africa and even China.

The Sperminator’s summer is jam-packed with trips timed to ovulation schedules. He’s flying to Israel this week to meet a woman who will have Nagel freeze his sperm at a clinic in case her first attempt at pregnancy is unsuccessful. After that, he’s off to Vietnam. “This crippled woman’s story really hit home,” he said of a 30-something left in a wheelchair after a debilitating motorcycle accident a few years ago. “She said, ‘It’s all I ever wanted.’ You just have a vibe that she’d be an amazing mom.” Plus, it will diversify his portfolio: “I don’t have an Asian baby yet.” In mid-July, a hopeful from Taiwan is flying in to New York to see if Nagel can make her dreams come true.

In every case, the women are covering the cost of the flights. But, as always, Nagel charges nothing for his sperm.

“It’s a lot of fun [traveling], actually. Of course, no one’s ovulating in Hawaii — it’s Toledo, Ohio, and Flint, Michigan,” he said, insisting he loves helping strangers.

“Creating a life and saving a life are my proudest moments. I donated my bone marrow twice and I never got to meet the recipients, I have no idea who it was,” he said. “[Fathering children] is a lot more fulfilling. It’s an honor to be chosen.”

As The Post reported last year, the Sperminator often uses public restrooms — Target, Starbucks — for procuring samples

Nagel insists there’s no shame in his game. “There’s homeless people in that Target bathroom all the time. What I’m doing is the least of their problems. You have people showering [in the sinks] there,” he said. “They should give us some free diapers for all this free press,” he said.

A week after Nagel was first profiled in The Post last Father’s Day, he admitted that his wife — with whom he lives in downtown Brooklyn and shares three children, ages 13, 6 and 3 — of 12 years was upset by the situation. Although Nagel claimed his wife, with whom he said he did not have a romantic relationship, knew of his Sperminator hobbies, an anonymous tipster told The Post she “had no idea.”

Today, Nagel won’t discuss his home life other than to say he and his “religious” wife’s arrangement hasn’t changed since last year. “She wasn’t livid” about his donations, per se, but rather about the media attention wreaking havoc on their otherwise private life.

So he took a sperm sabbatical for three months. But Nagel found he couldn’t ignore his calling. “It’s hard to say no [to the women], especially when it’s something that’s so important to them and so easy for me to give,” he said.

“If what I was doing was wrong, it wouldn’t feel right. But it feels good making someone’s dream come true. Why that’s controversial is so puzzling to me.”

If that’s not reminiscent of slave breeding and Jim-Crow paramour rights, then what is?  That man is getting a free pass for doing that.  It’s disgusting and detestable.  He should have been under the jail somewhere but because he’s a White Jewish man, he does whatever he wants to without rebuke from society, media, and law. 

Let me remind all you that he fathered at least 26 kids, mainly with Black women in NYC metro area.

He’s still married to his wife and mother of their three kids in Brooklyn.  

Here’s link:

Professor Fathers 22 Kids

Wife of Ari Nagel is “Livid”

Deadbeat Father Series: Kevin Federline

1251312486_kevin_federline_290x402 Smug-faced Kevin

Kevin’s oldest children with Shar Jackson, whom he didn’t marry but married Britney and his current wife whose name I don’t know at the moment.
Today,  I’m doing another post on another deadbeat dad:  Kevin Federline.  Yes, Kevin. The guy who up and left actress Shar Jackson to marry Britney Spears.  Back in 2004, he left his then-pregnant girlfriend Shar Jackson to date then-famous singer Britney Spears. During the same year, he married the singer in a private Studio City ceremony.  He gave her two kids in wedlock before divorcing her in 2006.  Britney set up a trust fund as well as a prenup to ensure that their kids get their share of her wealth.

In 2013, he and his current wife had a son and in the following year, they got married and had a girl in 2015. 

He could have taken care of his firstborn children by Ms. Jackson, but he chose neither to marry her nor being properly involved in his first two childrens’ lives. I don’t understand why so many people giving that jerk a pass for his misdeeds.   According to Shar Jackson’s 2006 interview, she said about her ex:

“My oldest daughter Cassie would come home from school in tears, everybody wanted to know, ‘Mommy why did Kevin do this? Why this? Why that? People were teasing me,’ That was the only part that just killed me,” she said.”

Shar does add, however, that she has not met their children.

“I keep my distance,” she said.

Shar Jackson’s Daughter Discusses Britney Spears-Kevin Federline Drama


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